Forest City · 2026-03-02

The first move costs the same whether you make it now or rehearse it for a year — you just pay the rehearsal on top. Walk over. Say the plain thing: her name, your name, why you came. The worst answer is a no you’d have earned anyway by staying quiet.

And it isn’t only her. The investor, the editor, the teacher you admire — every door opens with the same muscle. Train it small, daily. Wanting something out loud is not weakness. It’s the whole game.

your older brother, on the first move

Ars longa, vita brevis.